When you say, you have relationship problem, please understand that the other person is immaterial, and he or she is, is not what is making you uncomfortable. How you experience him or her within you is the cause of your relationship problem. And that is what has to be experienced.
So, in every crisis you are only getting to see more of yourself. It has nothing to do with the other person. As you start facing the truth of your own resistance, it starts the melting of it under the heat of awareness, your awareness. Content is not important. It is attention and awareness that matters.
Sri Bhagavan
