You will stop judging others when you stop judging yourself
All judgment you place upon another is but a reflection of the judgment you carry within yourself. The outer world is only a mirror to your inner world. When the heart is burdened with self-condemnation, it cannot help but project that same measure upon others. What you dislike in another is often a hidden wound within you, calling for your attention and healing.
The moment you begin to embrace yourself completely your thoughts, your emotions, your past without resistance, a great transformation happens. As the judgment towards yourself dissolves in the light of understanding, the need to judge others naturally disappears. In that sacred state, you simply witness life as it is, and in that witnessing, love alone remains. Let’s pray to Sri Ammabhagavan to stop judging ourselves.